When you are hurt the only way to heal is through comfort. Almost all of the options listed in our "poll" the other day are ways you can deal with hurts. However, they don't help you heal from the hurts. The only thing that does that is comfort. Having someone join you in your pain so that you will remember them loving you when you remember the painful hurt. Comfort has been attached to grief. How comfortable are you with the idea of that? Do you like it when someone enters your world and joins you in what you're going through? Some don't. There's something tricky about that emotionally and we will go over that this evening.